No punishment or shaming
We do not use punishments, threats, a “naughty chair” or rewards and punishments. Crying, anger or refusing food are not disobedience.
§ 6–7
Children’s safety
The rules we follow to protect the safety, boundaries and dignity of every child at Bonjour Bébé. They apply to all our staff and to everyone who runs activities with us.
This is an English translation for information. The binding version is the Polish original: Standardy ochrony małoletnich.
In short
A few rules from the Standards that you will see most often in daily care. The full text below is binding.
We do not use punishments, threats, a “naughty chair” or rewards and punishments. Crying, anger or refusing food are not disobedience.
§ 6–7
We never force children to hug, kiss, apologise or eat. We respect signs of discomfort, including those without words.
§ 6, § 8, § 24
When changing or dressing a child we say what we are doing, keep other people away and never take photos.
§ 8
When children clash, we keep everyone safe and help with emotions. We never call a child “aggressive” or force apologies.
§ 9
We publish photos only with a parent’s consent. Staff never use private accounts or devices to share images of children.
§ 22–23
Every suspicion of harm requires a response. Staff do not need to be certain to raise a concern. In an emergency they call 112.
§ 10–11, § 18
Reporting
If something worries you about a child’s safety or about how the Standards are followed, please tell us. You do not need to be certain or have proof.
Full version
Click a chapter to open it. The full document, including the form templates, can also be viewed at the nursery.
Whenever the Standards refer to:
– may find it harder to communicate discomfort, objection or experience of harm.
The appendices form an integral part of the Standards. Templates 1–6 are internal documents completed by staff. They can be viewed at the nursery.
Do you see, hear or learn about something that may indicate a child is being harmed? You do not need to be certain. You do not need to decide yourself whether an offence has taken place. You need to respond.
If the danger is ongoing: stop it → protect the child → call for help if needed.
Yes: keep the child safe → give first aid if needed → call 112 → then inform the Director / deputy. Do not wait for the Director’s consent if a delay could increase the danger.
No: keep the child safe → inform the Director / deputy → make a written note.
Do: stay calm; listen; take what the child says seriously; let the child speak in their own words; later write down the child’s words as exactly as possible; tell the child in simple words that you will take care of their safety.
Don’t: interrogate; suggest answers; ask for details again and again; show disbelief; promise to keep it secret; confront the child with the person the suspicion concerns.
Write down: what you yourself saw or heard; when and where it happened; who was present; what you did; what the child said – as word for word as possible; what information other people gave. Facts ≠ interpretations. Do not write: “The parent definitely hit the child” if you did not see it. Write: “I noticed a bruise on the child’s left arm. The parent said: ‘...’”.
If several people saw the event, each person makes their own note based on their own observations.
Depending on the situation, the following may be needed: protecting the child; contact with the Parent; removing a staff member from contact with the child; notifying the Police / public prosecutor; notifying the family court; action concerning domestic violence; a Child Support Plan.
Important: talking to the Parent is not automatically the first step. If the suspicion concerns the Parent, or informing them could put the child in danger or obstruct the competent authorities — do not start such a conversation on your own.
In an emergency: 112.
Person responsible for receiving reports / Standards Coordinator: Anna Frach-Popielarska.